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May 13, 2014

The Decision that Will Make or Break Your Marriage

18 of 52 Voices May 13th, 2014

The C3 Leaders devotion is a peer weekly reflection from business leaders related to their journey with Christ. Each weekly devotion will be written by a different author from among the C3 Leaders community, 52 unique authors to be exact.

As we go through this next year together, we pray that these words and reflections will encourage you in your relationship with Jesus Christ

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Les Parrott, Ph.D. Is a psychologist and #1 New York Times best-selling author of the new book, Making Happy.

We had just finished speaking at a camp in the San Juan Islands when a small plane buzzed over head and landed on a nearby airstrip.  A few minutes later the pilot was flying us over the islands of Puget Sound and we were approaching the lights of a local airport.  “The most important thing about landing is the attitude of the plane,” said the pilot.

“You mean altitude, don’t you?” We asked.

“No,” the pilot explained.  “The attitude has to do with the nose of the plane.  If the attitude is too high the plane will come down with a severe bounce.  And if the attitude is too low the plane may go out of control because of excessive landing speed.”

Then the pilot said something that got my attention:  “The trick is to get the right attitude in spite of atmospheric conditions.”

Without knowing it, our pilot had given us a perfect analogy for creating happiness in marriage — developing the right attitude in spite of the circumstances we find ourselves in.

It is no accident that some couples who encounter marital turbulence navigate it successfully while others in similar circumstances are dominated by frustration, disappointment and eventual despair.

It is no accident, also, that some couples are radiant, positive, and happy while other couples are beaten down, defeated, and anxiety-ridden.

Researchers who have searched for the difference between the two have come up with all kinds of correlates to marital success (long courtships, similar backgrounds, supportive families, good communication, well educated, and so on).  But the bottom line is that happy couples decide to be happy. They have a lock on what Paul said to the Philippians: “Do all things without grumbling” (2:14). In spite of whatever life deals them, they make happiness a habit.

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